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Puchu and 16 months!!
Posted on: October 2, 2009
My daughter is almost 16 months now and have already started speaking short sentences and words. It will be some times difficult for me to get the exact meaning for the word she is telling. For instance one day she rushed to the kitchen shouting “Puchu” at the top of her voice as if something hit her hard. I could not get what she was trying to say. I was as well tensed if something fell on her head. As a mom psychology I started thinking what could it be? what should I do next? and so many other things. Then I decide to go with her and investigate the situation. Then she grabbed my finger with her little sweet hand and pulled me near the entrance and showed me few flies on the wall. HA! Then I understood the whole situation. Fifteen minutes back, she wanted to step out of the house. I thought it will be very sunny for us to step out. So I want to scare her and showed her the little flies on the wall and told her that ” If we go out now, those flies ( Poochi in tamil !!) will hit you on your head”. So this is the reason. she has been examining those little flies and enacted the whole drama. I thought this was all too early for 16 months. But still I could not stop laughing. This taught me a lesson, she may be small, but can understand every move we make and every word we tell her. My brain gave me a command instantly ” BEWARE OF PUPPY ( my sweet little girl)!!”.
Want a baby proof jacket?
Posted on: August 5, 2009
I was wondering if parenting is more of getting hit that anything else. My daughter is now 15 months old. When ever she is happy , sad or angry, she would fall on me, targeting my jaw. She will try to prick my eyes, pull my ears, hit against my teeth. I’m thinking if my face will be totally in distorted shape by the time she grows up. So I thought we have to derive at a new definition for parenting ” The element which changes it shape, color, odour and yet stay stable, with the emotional bombardment of a juvenile”. When ever we define something we tend to take action for that. Since parents are in poor state, we all have to join hands for developing good head to toe jacket, which can withstand any extent of shocks, bites, scratches and forces in any ways. There by protecting all poor parents from young wrestlers. Long live parents!!!
Sacrificing is parenting….
Posted on: March 10, 2009
From my childhood i have never sacrificed much in my life. I was adjusting though. But not much. I was wondering will I even change. But I did for my daughter. I have always read articles saying “Parents do a lot for their kids, they sacrifice so much in their life”. But I did not believe in all those. I can never tolerate when someone says that they will do anything for their kids and for their life. I would stop by and ask them “Are you fool? Why would you sacrifice your life just for someone who will not even turn later to look at you. Life your life and enjoy.”…
Ha Ha Ha. Now I could not stop thinking about what I’m doing. When she was born , I have sacrificed my sleep just to look after her, to feed her even before she cries. I have sacrificed my food, if she does not eat . Will not do anything if she is not feeling good. Even if it is cold, I’m awake to check and see that she is normal. Now she is a bit grown up and I have sacrificed all my programs and just watch cartoons with her. I will do anything now if she will eat, just anything.
I take a minute to think that my daughter is just few years old and I do so many things to keep her happy. When she grows up, I will do so many things so that she gets what she needed. Then I came to a conclusion that you sacrifice stuffs without your knowledge for kids. We don’t realize that we are not doing certain things just for the sake that we want our kids to do certain things. But we all love to do what we are doing, just to see them grow as a good citizens. So parenting is sacrificing.. but doing that with love..
Being a mom…
Posted on: March 10, 2009
The best part of any girls life would be getting commited to a person and starting the new life.. But even more than that, being a mother is the best of all. Any women when she first hears that there is some one growing in you, it will look like a fantasy as if some one is joking. But as the days go and you start feeling the first kick, it will be the most beautiful moments of life. The first bond of love with the child begins. Reading to him, singing to him , talking with the sweetest little pie, it makes you forget all the problems, you no more feel lonely. As the days goes, the kicks gets more and more giving you the uncomfortable feeling. But we can never find a mom who complains about that. She may have so many problems like heart burns, cramping, back pain, loss of apetite, but everything is immaterial in front of the beautiful toes and the body brushing you from inside. I still remember the days when we went for scanning, expecting to see the baby and returned with dissatisfaction, wanting to see the baby more and more. The last month of any one’s pregnancy is a period of waiting and excitement. No more patience to see the most loving one. We feel like we are God and we are creating someone and presenting to this world.
I have seen so many changes in all the women who has shifted from careless, inpatient and uncaring girls to loving, caring and pleasant mom. When the d-date comes , it is full of anxiety , just few hours left to see the wonderful little thing in our life. All he wait for 9 months is going to be answered in few hours. Even during delivery the feeling of seeing you kid will be more than the real pain. No joking.
At last , after a long tedious pushing, you see a pearl there. Could you believe? Everyone tends to cry looking at the sweet angel right there in her fathers hands. The little toes and hands, softy , rosy body, like a small cat. Oh my GOD , the wonderful things in the whole world. I love the tenderness. The poor thing has to be taught everything, including eating. I love being a mom.
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