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Milk, Sugar and little bit of coffee powder makes a delicious and hot coffee. The coffee becomes much more tastier when you have a very good partner, with whom you can have coffee with. I always like to have coffee with some company rather than drinking alone. Drinking coffee is a beautiful time you get in a busy day schedule.  I almost consider it equal to Yoga or doing meditation. But also beware of your coffee partner otherwise it becomes the horror moment in a day. There are few good tips for a good and relieving coffee time:

1) Choosing a good brand of coffee, otherwise we may have to spend the rest of the day at restrooms :).

2) Choosing a good and reliable friend / husband/ lover , the character requirement will be discussed later in this blog.

3) Good ambience, where you will be motivated to talk without any eavesdropping taking place around.

4) Good snack ( Fat or fat free or carb free or whatever free, that depends on your requirement).

Why to think so much for drinking a cup of coffee? If you had this question in your mind already, it means that you have missed the greatest fun in life, of drinking coffee with a company.  I would say when I have a friend , I would like to make a good cup of coffee or tea depending on the interest of others. Sit down on the table, grab some snacks , take a sip and visualize the coffee going down through my food pipe. I don’t know if this is true. As the coffee passes down my throat and before reaching my tummy, on the way it tickles my heart and says ” Hey buddy its your time!!”. My heart immediately thinks what all happened from today morning, do i have anything to say and so on. Then my brain gives signals to my mouth and it starts pouring out. The things may start from my daughter  shifts to my husband , my work at home , other problems, confusions I have and so many other things which I have been mulling over  and over again. Thus a single drop of coffee makes me to talk about so many things. So imagine what a full cup of coffee would do. It does so many things even before you realize. It makes you to talk, there by making your heart lighter, it makes you to laugh  over nothing , it makes you feel light and gives lot of energy to carry the rest of the day’s work.  But this all will happen only when you have a good company. Lets take few charachters we see around:

1) I know of few people who will just drink from the cup like “:Rrrrrrrrrrr.. cham cham… rrrrrrrrrrrr… cham cham.. “, this will demotivate you. You will feel when that dirty sound is going to stop. 🙂 They will not open their mouth until the last bit of coffee is done. Then they will look at you, by then you may some times see a drop of blood from your ear.”The end!!”.

2) There are few others, who will start talking and keep talking and keep on talking, without giving a chance for you to talk. This time coffee drinking will be a tiresome job, as you have already loads in your heart and a few extra load added to you.

3) Few others will not open their mouth , but just say “Hmm..mm.. rrrrrrrr .. Hmm.. mmm…rrrrrrrrrrr”. I hope now you got the sound of rrrrrrrrr.. This time also you will be very tired as you have been talking all through the time, with no response from other end.

4) There are few , who is very perfect for spending the coffee time. Who will listen to you when you talk and who will talk when you listen. But, when they have coffee with others they will tell them what all you told them. This is called ” Coffee Gossips”. So beware of them!!!

So what kind of partner you really  need, you need someone who talks when you listen and who listens when you talk and who is reliable.  What ever talked over coffee should last longer until the cup gets empty. But make sure you don’t make any agreement with them. Then it will last longer only over a cup of coffee!! For example, I asked my husband I need some gold jewelry. He drank his coffee  and gave the cup to me and said , ” The coffee is over!! Now i don’t remember what we spoke while drinking coffee!!”.

A cup of coffee is a poetic moment which we get each day. Choose a good location, good partner it will be divine.

After reading this blog , if you think of skipping drinking coffee, that would be the best suggestion I would give. Don’t waste time “OVER A CUP OF COFFEE!”